LOVE - a beautiful score

Love, or love, is a vast word that humanity has sought to define since time immemorial. What is love? Does it truly exist? Is there a part of illusion in love? How to find Pure Love (authentic love)?

The piano, a metaphor for love:

Each key of our inner piano represents an emotion: the low notes express our pains, our fears, our doubts; the high notes, our laughter, our hopes, our joys. At birth, we only possess a few notes on our piano. Over the years, through experiences, interactions with life, others, and nature, we develop new notes that enrich our piano.

Love is a story of tuning our emotions

Love, like a melody, begins with an intimate process of self-tuning. The key to harmony lies in adjusting and embracing every emotion we already carry. Harmony is accessible to everyone, at every stage of life, because it depends solely on our ability to sincerely integrate each note. No note needs to be rejected or hidden.

The path to harmony and self-love lies in playing all the notes on our piano. Some notes will be out of tune, sounding too loud or not loud enough. Perhaps you will discover that you are missing an important note in your melodies? Explore your notes without reservation and accept them as they are, here and now. Acceptance is the first step towards tuning your notes.

The encounter with the other: resonances and adjustments

When we meet someone, it's as if two pianos start playing together. Our notes respond to each other: some resonate naturally in unison, creating affinities and points of connection. These shared notes are our common values, our sensitivities, our experiences. But other notes clash, because each individual has their own melody. These dissonances are not obstacles; they invite us to adjust some of our notes to create a new harmony. And sometimes, by listening to the other, we discover notes we had never explored, which we integrate into our own keyboard, thus enriching our personal melody.

Emotional independence: playing your own music

True love (or Pure Love) is a balance between sharing and independence. Each person must remain master of their own melody, without depending on the other's notes to fill their gaps. Emotional dependency occurs when we seek to complete our personal harmony by using the other's notes, without integrating them into our own piano.

To love is to play our music, appreciating the other's without getting lost in it, remaining complete and autonomous in our melody. Pure Love is listening and being happy to hear the other's beautiful melody while being free to play your own music. It is also offering help without judgment to adjust the other's notes, in order to help them create an even more beautiful and harmonious music.

Conflicts: the need for constant adjustment

In any relationship, conflicts arise when one or the other refuses to tune their notes to find common harmony. Our emotions, influenced by our environment, our experiences, and our past, sometimes become untuned, which is normal. Love requires regular tuning: listening, readjusting, and accepting the other's differences to build a shared harmony.

The way to resolve these conflicts is to work on one's own tuning and not to try to tune the other's piano. We have neither the legitimacy nor the power to tune the other's piano. The only way to support the other in their tuning is to set an example by tuning your own and playing your new melody. This melody will resonate with the other and help them adjust their piano to mirror yours.

Acceptance of all notes: a complete piano

The most beautiful piano music, that which profoundly touches and transcends, is not played on a single tonality. Take Beethoven: his compositions transport us because they embrace the full range of the piano, from the darkest to the brightest notes. A harmonious life is not one that settles for joyful notes; it is one that welcomes all emotions and integrates every contrast, because every note – low or high – has its place in the whole. By fully accepting our emotional range, we compose authentic, powerful, and inspiring music.

In conclusion:

The piano is like love. If we don't play our piano regularly, the strings go out of tune, and we lose the ability to play with elegance and harmony. Experiment, dare to make new encounters to enrich your piano. Accept, with kindness and honesty, all the notes of your piano. And finally, remember that changing the world is not about changing others' notes, but simply radiating your music, which, by inspiring others, will lead them to evolve.